Becoming the 4 McCaffery's

We've created this webpage for our family, friends, and future adoptive families to follow us in our adoption journey to Kazakhstan to become a family of 4. Thanks for reading, we hope you enjoy it!!

Monday, April 10, 2006

Our first home visit



Today was Vitalik's first visit to our apartment. He was here from 10AM to 6PM which is a lot longer than our previous 2 hour visits. The car ride went a lot better. He didn't cry at all. When we were in the car, he was very alert--we don't know if he was tense or just taking in the outside world he never gets to see. After a peanut butter and jelly and corn lunch, the boys got a bath. Possibly the first bath for Vitalik. He was scared to go in, but quickly realized it was a fun adventure and both boys would have liked to be in there all day, but we ran out of hot water. After naptime, we promised we would have him take a nap. Vitalik refused to nap, much to Nell's dismay. His mischevious side came out--always checking for approval with a smirk before sneaking out of bed. Not that we blamed him, but we didn't want him to get in trouble for being tired later at the orphanage. Both boys are getting much better at sharing and seemed to enjoy themselves, with minimal conflict over certain toys. Vitalik doesn't really show affection yet, which is hard for us, especially since Ian is so affectionate. He does accept hugs and kisses and will give them if you ask, but I don't think he really knows what that means. We don't know if he is excited to see us or just excited to get a break from the orphanage. I am sure all will be well with time. We don't know whether we'll be able to bring him to the apartment today (Tues) or not. I guess we'll find out when we get to the orphanage (aka baby house).

2 Comments:

Blogger Janiece said...

Sounds like a great start to the expanded family. I'm so happy the car ride went well. I love reading this--couldn't wait to get home from work.

1:08 AM  
Blogger The 5 McGills said...

Love the picture of Vitalik after his bath! Glad to hear things are going well. Debbie

8:31 PM  

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